A Successful Mindset : How Dependent Are You?

People want to be seen as independent. They talk like like an independent person and act like one. Needless to say, they don’t want to be seen as dependent. Let’s say living with parents after 25 years old because they want to save their money. I just want to think about this for a sec how this really helps you to become an independent thinker. Do you think a dependent person can be an independent thinker without becoming completely independent? Truth, you already know which side you are in. If you cannot admit or running away from the truth, you may not even stand at the starting point to think like a successful man.

I get to see many successful people in my life because of my business and also having lots of respect towards them making me want to be with them, it is my intention. The quote “Water seeks its own level”, this is my favorite quote. This gave me the wisdom that who I should be hanging out with and where I should belong to. The meaning of the quote is very similar to the quote “Birds of a feather flock together”, you can raise your bar as far as you can image, on the other hand, you can drop your bar as low as you can find yourself miserable.

Every single successful person is an independent thinker at least in the field they are in. They are not born with how they think now. They start thinking the way they do because it has been established in the long run by overcoming many obstacles and dealing with their emotion. As you know realize, They always have problems like everybody else does but their ability is way bigger than what their obstacles are. That’s how they keep growing. Thus, they can keep rising instead of maintaining where they are or going down.

When you are facing the worst situation you can possibly imagine, can you imagine yourself keeping the goal without becoming a blind or giving up the way you decided to go or trying to find an alternative. They are a master of one. Unfortunately, I found so many people still looking for an opportunity over and over again until 60.  They cannot recognize an opportunity as it is and stilling looking for something that they think is better. One thing I can tell you is that there is no easy way out to become successful no matter kind of field you choose to go. Make up your mind and pursuing the way you chose may be the short-cut to become successful quick. Nothing is easy but requires disciplines, although I know that many successful people do tough things with a smile on their face. Many people smile because it is fun, but successful people smile because they are excited for their future even if they are in the worst place you can possibly imagine. They are not depending on someone else to make them smile. If you cannot even make a smile on your face. You are still depending on someone to make you smile. Smile and think like a winner