Sometimes people want to change themselves because a behavior or emotional pattern create pain. In fact, most people are caught up in negative emotional state or behavior to get attention. For example, if a person becomes injured, all of a sudden, everyone waits on them hand and foot, giving them a great deal of attention. While they want to be over with the pain, unconsciously they want more of the pleasure, having people’s attention and care.
For you to be successful, a change in yourself is necessary action to take. People want to leave old themselves but still believing that maintaining the old behavior or emotional pattern could take them up on the success ladder and ends up holding them back due to the secondary gain.
Truth, being depressed gets them attention, they don’t want to be depressed but they eagerly want attention. To solve the problem, simply they need enough leverage that they must change and meet their needs. Your future is bright and unlimited. The resources you need to change are within yourself right now.